Did you ever notice how we use words as weapons? Some of us are very
proficient at cutting down others. Most times we do it for the fun of it. We
do not think of the implications our words can have before we speak them. We
can encourage or discourage with just a few simple words. Greetings in the
name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
I was on a field trip with my daughter’s school to the Bronx Zoo.
After a day of walking around the zoo one of the mothers sat down and
proclaimed her exhaustion. She shared about how comfortable her feet were
and that her orthodontist prescribed her new shoes. I thought out loud; “If
your orthodontist is prescribing your shoes you must have your foot in your
mouth a lot.” Obviously she misspoke and meant her orthopedist. I think we
can all be guilty of opening our mouth and inserting our foot. In racing we
have many opportunities to say the wrong thing.
You were just involved in a racing incident, maybe your fault,
maybe not, you climb from the car and before you catch your breath it seems
someone wants to know what happened. You start to speak, saying what’s on
your mind. You tell your side of the story, how it looked from your
perspective. You don’t have time to think it through or digest the
situation. If it is not your first run in with a driver you speak from past
We think we know what happened and react accordingly. Most time
what actually happened is different from what we think. Wouldn’t it be great
if we could look at a replay before we had to comment? Too many times we
have to go back and adjust what we said. I suggest we might follow some old
advice, “Put your mind in gear before you put your mouth in motion.” Did you
ever wonder where that advice came from?
Proverbs 17:28; Even a fool is thought wise if
he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue.
better for people to think you are a fool than to open your mouth and remove
all doubt. Words are a double edge sword. In the racing world, we live and
die by what we say. If you doubt it, how do you think a foul mouth driver
sounds to a prospective sponsor? If you were investing your money in a race
team ask yourself, “What kind of spokesman would I want?”
If it is our desire to succeed and prosper we need to tame our
tongue. That is not to say we have to keep your mouth shut, but it is to say
think before we speak. Take into consideration what our words will mean to
someone else. Take the time to consider what impact our words will have on
others before we speak them. Listen to the words of James as he tells us the
danger of a loose tongue.
3:5-10; Likewise the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes
Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. The tongue
also is a fire,
a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person,
sets the whole course of his life on fire,
and is itself set on fire by hell. All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and
creatures of the sea are being tamed
and have been tamed by man, but no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless
evil, full of deadly poison.
With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who
have been made in God's likeness.
Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not
It is ok to be truthful if in fact we are
speaking the truth. It is ok to speak honestly if in fact we are being
honest. It is ok to express our opinion if our opinion is not based on
hearsay or gossip.
I remember someone asked me once, “Do you kiss your mother with
that mouth?” It made me realize that I needed to watch what I say. I am not
just talking about curse words; I am talking about hurtful, hateful words.
We say things about people behind their back that we wouldn’t say
to their face. Unfortunately in this electronic age we can hide behind a
screen name and avoid taking responsibility for the things we say. Yes,
typed words are the same as spoken words.
I encourage you to consider that you are speaking directly to the
person when you say or type something. When you call their motives into
question why not give them the benefit of the doubt. Take the time to talk
with them and listen to their side of the story. Many times we do not have
all the information that is needed to pass judgment on what someone has said
I am not saying to accept everything without question. I am saying
before we condemn someone or something take the time to look at the
situation from another point of view. Think before we speak. Consider what
affect our words will have. In everything we do seek to honor, praise and
bring glory to God.
FROM THE ROAD
OKTOBERFEST CLOSES OUT RACING IN THE NORTHEAST -
Lee USA closed out the season this past weekend with its annual Oktoberfest.
Our NEMA Chaplain Tara Stoehr sent in these notes.
NEMA CLOSES OUT THE SEASON - Lee was the last race of the
season for NEMA and I am reminded that God calls us to be thankful in all
1Thessolonians 5:28; "Be thankful in all
circumstances, for this is God's will for you who belong to Christ Jesus"
I am thankful for the NEMA racers and all the people connected with them.
Even grateful for the mud that Friday’s rain caused at Lee, but I'm glad we
didn't have to pit in it! I am grateful for the season and God's hand of
protection over all of us.
I am thankful for RWJM and for the encouragement from Bobby Somers,
Chaplain for VMRS. As my family and I approached the pits on Saturday,
suddenly I became very anxious and wasn't sure why. Even though my husband
and daughter race I'm not one to get anxious! I asked God what it was and
had a hard time shaking it. Then God sent someone to help. Bobby came into
our pit area, I shared with him and he talked me through it giving me some
helpful insight. What a blessing.
I also realized if I didn't hand this over to Jesus it would hinder
my ability to be there for others, to deliver His message effectively and to
be able to walk with Gods confidence. I then went into our trailer, put my
earphones in and listened to worship music and God took away my anxiety. I
was ready to focus on the work to be done! Thank you God!
It's bittersweet as the season comes to a close, as I reflect back
on the season I am once again in awe of how good God is and of all the
"little" stories and incidents that have occurred. Our God is awesome and I
am very grateful for his love, grace, mercy and salvation that he freely
gives us, even when we don't deserve it!
BACK TO GREENVILLE/PICKENS - With a rainout on Labor Day
Weekend the K&N Race was rescheduled for this Saturday. That gives us back
to back races to close out the K&N Pro Series East for NASCAR. This week
Greenville , next week we crown a champion at Rockingham.
WORLD DIRT FINALS - We will also be in Charlotte for the
World Dirt Finals in two weeks, God has brought together three ministry
groups to reach out to the fans and racers that will be there. I have been
invited to bring the blessing at the WOO Banquet and am looking forward to
the opportunity to celebrate with the teams and their families. Please keep
this weekend in your prayers as many things have to come together.
NORTH-SOUTH SHOOTOUT - Following our Charlotte weekend we
will head south again, this time to Caraway to participate in the 10th
Annual John Blewett III Memorial North- South Shootout. As always we look
forward to a collection of teams from up and down the east coast to compete
for the prize.
Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers. After a long season we
still have many things on our schedule and as you know there are always
challenges meeting them. It is good to know you are there, behind us,
holding us up. Thank you for your encouragement.
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